“Free delivery twice daily. Call 410.”

That was the inscription on the delivery wagon, newspaper ads and order pads.

It was a unique service of the family grocery store setting it apart from the other seven grocers in town.

Times are repeating themselves as businesses now frequently promote home deliveries of many products.

Special assistance has been somewhat common with senior meal deliveries for some time.

Then grocery stores in several rural communities started helping out, especially catering to those with limited travel capabilities.

Work-away-from-home moms, complexing busy family life yet with modern technology, encouraged more stores to provide computer shopping. Carryout boys not as prominent these days went back to work bringing orders to cars at the store door.

A few rural grocery stores still have carryout helpers who congenially offer to put sacked purchases in buyer’s cars.

Every grocery store customer was provided that service days gone by as cars were parked up and down Main Street. Curable problems arose when a customer got a different car unknown to the carryout boy or were parked blocks away.

Today with the worldwide health concerns demanding distancing, businesses of all sorts are offering home deliveries.

A wannabe cowboy growing up in a grocery store, fondest early memory is going with Dad to deliver groceries.

Delivery orders were taken after customers responded “410” to the telephone operator’s request “Number please?” Mom or another grocery store employee answered the ring: “Buchman’s Grocery.”

“This is turning back the pages of time.”

It’s considerably different, yet all of the recent heath and economic issues have a certain semblance of days gone by.

Before today’s many forms of social media, communication beyond immediate acquaintances was vastly limited. Hard for young people nowadays to even imagine no cell phone, no computer, not even a television, or a mailman.

Likewise forefathers would have never been able to envision all of the modern day technologies. Telegraph machines of the 1800s boggled minds before radios and telephones were invented.

While all may seem old fashioned to the present they were slow coming into some rural households.

Families were proud to be the first one in the county to have a radio. Then they got a telephone, vastly different than cell phones.

Televisions with only black and white pictures were uncommon to many 60 years ago as color came later.

This required electricity, an unknown luxury in great grandparents’ time. Tall poles with powerlines created fear but lights with a switch soon healed concerns as additional conveniences followed.

Letter writing is sadly becoming a thing of the past although many decades since the Pony Express initiated mail delivery.

Penny postcards received by an acquaintance all the way across the country the next day has been nonexistent for some time. Yet postal services are far unappreciated communication means.

Dear Grace Friends,

Like you, I am hunkering down as much as possible during the Stay at Home order from our communities. While we are acting responsibly to help curb the spread of the coronavirus, and we are separated more than usual, yet we can still worship as one.

In place of Sunday worship on the Grace Lutheran campus, Osage City, this week’s home worship includes three documents to assist you in home worship this March 29 weekend: Home worship with message below; the day’s assigned Bible readings, large print (3 pages); and a puzzle maze.

Offerings are still important and can be mailed to the church. The church building is not open this Sunday.

Feel free to contact me or church leaders for any concerns or needs you have during this time.

In Christ’s love,

Pastor Russ Glaser
Grace Lutheran E.L.C.A.
210 Holliday St.
Osage City, KS 66523

“Get up, give up, do something and be thankful for all there is.”

What a confusing seemingly contradicting statement. Yet it’s the simple accurate description for this season among those of strong faith.

Lent started Ash Wednesday, Feb. 26, and concludes Easter Sunday, April 12. Gospels prescribe Lent to be time for fasting, almsgiving and prayer.

“Get up” into action reflecting days the savior Jesus spent facing difficultly. Ash Wednesday begins “40 days” expression admitting need for repentance thus sorrow for wrong doings.

Marking the beginning of Holy Week, Palm Sunday commemorates Jesus entrance into Jerusalem with palm branches placed in his path.

He is arrested on Holy Thursday, crucified on Good Friday, and His body placed in the tomb on Holy Saturday. Jesus is gloriously resurrected, raised from the dead, on Easter Sunday.

“Give up” generally refers to fasting, meaning eating less. That might be missing one meal, or smaller amounts consumed breakfast, dinner and supper.

Interesting nutritional studies indicate longer periods between meals prove quite beneficial. Most in modern times can merit from taking in fewer calories.

It’s time to make additional sacrifices, perhaps spending less on frivolities. Staying home rather than carousing however insignificant that might be.

“Do something” means extra activity not for personal satisfaction but to benefit others.

Call an acquaintance who hasn’t been heard from in a long time. Visit a shut-in who is lonely, where just a short personal time together can brighten their life immensely. Send a card with just a few words of reflection expressing awareness of friendship.

A token gift to a loved one, family or friend simply lightens another’s life. Maybe a box of goodies, a warm supper or that just right knickknack become so significant.

“The first ride is the most important one.”

Such philosophy is profound among those who’ve worked with young horses. That initial mount is often reflected in later life whether positive or undesirable. Horses are very smart creatures, much more so than most handlers it seems.

Horses typically don’t forget the good; yet likewise typically remember anything bad that might have happened. Recall can sometimes even come years afterwards.

The doctor ordered for six months: no driving motor vehicle; no horseback riding; no bath.

Come to find out it’s against state law to drive, considering possibility for personal injury and safety of others.

Evidently there’s risk of drowning while bathing although showering hazards would seem as great? Always one to bath more often than Saturday night, that doctor’s directive was soon ignored.

It’d been 55 days. There just wasn’t anything that could control or stop the urge to get back on and ride, defying physician’s warning.

Blame has to be on the group president who a couple days earlier had asked, “Have you been riding?”

The “no” answer was embarrassing, setting stage to do what a cowboy is supposed to do: “ride his horse.”

“Babies having babies require even more extra care.”

Such a comment is not completely factual but strong semblance all concerns considered.

Modern day proficient cow-calf operators breed replacement heifers as yearlings to calve when they’re two years old.

That’s some different than several generations back when old time cowmen grew their heifers to stronger maturity before breeding.

Today’s efficiency demands reproduction at an earlier age to increase profitability in an operation, making every momma cow more prolific. Doing that requires especial management of that herd replacement from her birth until she has a baby of her own.

Size and maturity are essential ingredients to make the program work. A heifer must grow well herself, and be of sufficient fertility and maturity to be bred. She must settle safe in calf, birth that baby and be momma enough to care for it.

Writing and reading about such might seem simple to a lay person who’s never been there and done that. Yet, calving replacement heifers is a major ordeal requiring highest expertise.

By Pam Bilyeu RN, Help House Director

A new automated door opener has been installed at Help House. The funds for this improvement were made available through the Emporia Community Foundation. This now provides easier access into and out of Help House for those using wheelchairs and walkers, as well as the shopping carts to unload groceries into vehicles.

Prom boutique

Starting March 4, 2020, and through the month of March, the Help House Prom Boutique will be open during normal hours. A colorful collection of dresses in various sizes and styles will be available. Some shoes and jewelry items will also be available. Come to see if that “perfect dress” is here for you!

Join Help House

March 10 at 6 p.m. is the next Help House meeting. Those interested in learning more about the ministry outreach programs of Help House are welcome to attend. Reviewing services provided and preparing for the upcoming fundraising season will be some of the topics covered during this meeting.

Good Sense Budget Class

The next Good Sense Budget Class will be held 10 a.m.-4:30 p.m. Monday, March 16. Those who are interested should stop by Help House to sign up and receive the pre-course paperwork that is required for the class. Participants who complete the class are eligible for utility assistance from the Help House Utility Fund.

Souper-Bowl-Soup-A-Thon

Congratulations to the 4th Annual Help House Souper-Bowl-Soup-A-Thon winners! They are: Overbrook United Methodist Church, winning the Golden Ladle Award, Carbondale Community Church of Christ, winning the Silver Ladle Award, and Lyndon United Methodist Church, winning the Bronze Ladle Award. A full list of participants is on our website at osagecountyhh.com. Thank you to all who participated and collected a total of 1,354 cans of soup and 25 boxes of crackers!

“How’s calving going this winter?”

Those unfamiliar with birthing calves out of stock cows likely don’t understand that question.

Yet the reply is important to cowmen whose paycheck depends on a calf being born and growing to be marketed.

Conversations in recent days have been better than sometimes with herdsmen claiming this year is “going pretty good.”

Generically that means there haven’t been many problematic calving issues with a high percentage of live births.

Conscientious cow-calf operators readily quote number of calves, specific issues which might have arisen, and efforts to keep babies healthy.

That’s quite contrasting to the calving question response from one young cowboy responsible for a big ranch cowherd four decades ago.

He said, “I’ll know after we burn pastures this spring, can see carcasses and how many calves tail the mommas in.”

Obviously he was not a dedicated cowman. His only concern was doing his first duty making sure the cows had feed and maybe knowing the herd count.

Dedicated ranchers with cows know every one of them like their own child. They may all be black, appearing identical to outsiders, but each is a unique individual to the one caring for them.

Identity may be by tag number, or personal moniker deriving from distinct disposition, conformation or unique characteristic.

“You need to do a story about Bill’s cowherd; he has a 104 percent calf crop this year.”

Nearly 40 years ago another horse breeder friend stopped by and commented about his Chase County neighbor rancher’s cattle operation.

A visit to the cowman’s place verified sure enough it was a great year to be raising calves. He had 78 baby calves nursing the 75 cows in his herd. Another neighbor high school math teacher verified that figured out to exactly 104 percent.

Such successes don’t set records and aren’t completely unheard of, but a 100 percent calf crop is every herdsman’s goal. Some achieve it, certain ones quite frequently, but to wean one calf out of every cow every year is uncommon.

To exceed that one calf per cow number obviously means some cows went above and beyond natural expectations and duties. In Bill’s herd that time, three cows had twins and the remainder of the herd count each raised one baby.

Twins aren’t completely uncommon in beef herds with certain breeds known for having higher percentage of twins. Likewise specific bloodlines are more prone to give multiple births.

If a cow has twins once, likelihood of her doing it again increases. Her daughters and granddaughters seem to have increased probability of having more than one calf, too.

“Put him out to pasture when his work is done.”

It’s a common view about old horses and sadly sometimes similar opinion of retirement age people.

When a cowboy’s told “no riding horses for six months,” mounts’ routines change too.

The 13-year-old buckskin performance mare Maggie has been “boxed up” ever since getting her six years ago.

That’s not completely true, but the ornery show horse has been kept inside all of the time. It might seem inconsiderate, perhaps even inhumane for those not completely understanding the importance of quality horse condition.

Yet, to compete successfully in today’s horseshows, horses must be well fit. That means bright slick hair unaltered by sunshine and outdoor elements. Horse mane and tail styles, not unlike hair fashions of today’s cowboys and cowgirls, have changed through the decades.

Compared to yesteryear horses’ manes being roached with tails thinned and shortened, most show horses nowadays have naturally long manes and tails. That requires more owner management so the horses’ extended hairs don’t become tangled, ratted, damaged. Horses kept outside are naturally inclined to rub on fences, posts and the like messing up their manicured flowing tresses.

Clarification, Maggie had a clean stall being turned out every morning through afternoon to exercise around the indoor arena. She was ridden almost daily, sometimes briefly, frequently more extensively.

Still the show horse was pleased when her home became the barnyard corral. With a shelter, still amply fed, and freedom to do as she wants all of the time without any riding.

“What time is it? What day is it? What month is it?”

Those are very serious questions when one doesn’t know the answer.

Mom was always very conscious of what time it was, but when that became unimportant, she lost sense of worthiness. Or so it seemed lack of desire to care about anything that was happening.

Memory is one of the most important senses one has, perhaps the most important of all. People in younger years too often joke about not remembering what they did or where something was left. Everybody forgets certain things, but when one doesn’t know who they are, what they’re doing, or anything around them, it’s terrible.

Dementia and Alzheimer’s disease are two of the worst and most dreaded illnesses in the world. While certain treatments have shown to be limitedly effective, in reality there appears to be low cure for the ailment.

It’s been said one prefers to be physically incapacitated rather than completely mentally deficient. Both are bad, but it’s sure important to know what is happening around one even if unable to participate.

Research on the problem continues with few positive results, commonly considering it an uncontrollable inherent issue. That appears true as those with memory issues in their family often have similar difficulties despite efforts to prevent.

Keeping the body and mind active and interested in everything that’s going on does help prevent memory loss it’s said.

Yet there are certain incidents, such as a wreck nearly five decades ago, that cannot be remembered. Things before and after are recalled completely, and stories heard and read can be recited, but no precise details.

Likewise there is no reflection of specifics from a recent serious health setback except what happened before and after. The stories that are told about the situation become blurred with the actual facts. Timelines surrounding it all are completely array confusing from one conversation to the next.

“I’m planning to live forever.”

The neighbor dairyman made that statement years ago when helping with a project getting ready for the annual field day.

That’s a positive outlook giving incentive to get up get going live another day make another accomplishment.

Yes, there are said to be many ways to live longer, improve life through exercise, diet, faith, positive thinking.

Yet everyone is completely mortal, although many try hard to deny it. The old saying “Nobody ever gets out of this world alive” is true.

No matter how well one feels, how everything looks perfect, how much money is in the bank. Even if the best horse in the world is in the barn, death is going to come.

Every day the paper has an obituary, often several, of sudden deaths of frequently healthy young people dying without warning.

Then sometimes there are wake up calls. Life takes many directions working to succeed, survive, accomplish more. It becomes unrealized stress, which can take its toll in many forms. That might be mental or physical or a combination of those and others.

When the dire notice comes there is no forewarning. Fine line between life and death, just a hair of a second from one to the next.

No recalling the actual circumstances whatsoever other than the stories that have been related since the occurrence. Evidently emergency crews were most efficient arriving and caring for the unconscious, making sure additional essential healthcare was provided.

Literally dozens of health professionals with the utmost modern technological services worked diligently together for continued life. There may have been telltale warnings, but they were not understood or perhaps ignored.

Ed. note: Frank Buchman is taking a break to start off 2020, so we’ll revisit his New Year’s optimism from six years ago. Originally published Jan. 5, 2014.

“Everybody is talking about the new year.”

Somehow, new always has a positive connotation, whatever the subject. Thus, regardless of what the past has been, and despite sometimes even gloomy forecasts, when the calendar turns to January, most people look forward to better days ahead.

“Mommas are the most important person in the entire universe.”

No debate about the comment, other than recognizing The Almighty God who created everything.

Nobody would be around now or before or into the future without a mother, mom, momma, ma, whatever moniker preference.

Mom, affectionately remembered by most as Laura Mae, passed away nearly 38 years ago at age 62. Do the math, Laurie, as sometimes referred to with orneriness by her only child, would have been 100 years old on Jan. 7.

Without prejudice, Mom was the most interested congenial generous person always giving others helping hand.

Laurie’s heartfelt way was related in a phone call Saturday afternoon.

A smiling farm boy was paid $7.50 every two weeks for milking cows twice daily on the family farm dairy. It cost a dollar a day to eat at the high school cafeteria, a total of $10, for two weeks. That was $2.50 more than the farm boy earned.

Never shy most congenial, the boy went into Laura Mae’s (what many called Buchman’s Grocery). He explained his financial situation to Mom always at the cash register in the front of the store.